How Authenticity and Vulnerability Pay Off and Help You Win Personally and Professionally
From your experience or perspective, what are some of the common barriers that hold someone back from being authentic and vulnerable?
What I’ve learned throughout life, but especially over the past few years, is that most people want so badly to be liked and accepted that they would rather go along with the crowd when it comes to opinions, style, and thoughts. With social media, if your opinion differs from most, you get attacked, degraded, shamed. It makes sense to take the easier way out, but to me, I could never. Being able to hold an opinion, to be able to take a stand and ask questions, to be able to present myself authentically without hiding behind a façade, now THAT is easier spiritually and morally. With social media and podcasts, and having good engagement and “likes,” it’s also easy to get caught up with what sells and gets the most views to help people feel fame, even in a small way. If your post gets 2 likes, it’s telling you that speaking or showing on that topic isn’t going to be as beneficial as another, which may not be the direction you’d ideally like to go in, but you do, because it feels good or it sells.
how to build lasting customer relationships
RESPECT — We treat each client with respect, no matter what package they choose to book with us. I know vendors who treat their highest-paying clients with the most attention and the lowest-paying with the least attention, but I am someone who has grown up with the philosophy that you treat the janitor with the same respect you would the President, as one, is not a better person than the other. Every person deserves respect and honor, and each person has a story that we don’t fully know. And our clients feel that — we do not talk down to anyone, even if they need a lot of education on the planning process.
the difference in Planning all types of events
From mitzvahs to birthdays to weddings, and everything in between, planning events is something just LOVE. It’s in my blood. People always say they could feel my passion for the work from the first conversation they had with me and it made them even more excited to have their event. Whoo hoo! Nothing makes me happier than getting people excited to celebrate life.
Many Planners set a niche for themselves, “Wedding Planner,” “Party Planner,” “Mitzvah Planner,” “Event Planner” and more, and we could easily do that, but why stop the passion and excitement with just one type of event?!
But what are the similarities and differences in planning each type of event?